Growing up we watch romance movies where the guy chases a woman all over the world (at times) just to prove that he loves her. He swoons her and shows her in every way how much he loves her and how much she means to him.
What no one told us was that once we got into a real life relationship, most of the swooning stops after you both confess your love, move in with each other, get married. Why, I don't know. It seems that maybe we think we don't have to prove our love anymore. Especially those who are married. When you think of it, once you are married you have shown your greatest gesture of love. You have shown that no matter what you have been through with each other you are committing your life to each other til death do you part.
I think this might be why some marriages/relationships don't work out. Either both or one of the persons involved stops trying. I know that when I watch movies and the main couple have had their fights and then at the very end they forgive and kiss....to me that kiss says so much. Yes, I know it's just a movie and things really don't happen in real life like that... but wouldn't that be amazing? To literally kiss and everything is better. Yes, they say you can kiss and makeup. Here is my question, how many of those kisses were like the ones in the movies? The ones that make every part of your being just scream with joy, the kind that make your heart sigh. I know me and my husband have had some of those kisses... but man how I wish they could all be like that. But, then again, sometimes, I wish our love was like a movie. No fights, no tears, no heartache. Just love and everything about you and the one that you love. We live in the real world though where there are bills and surprises (and Murphy's Law) where things never really go the way they should and things are always going wrong.
Even though I wish we had that fairy tale romance, I know that our love is perfect, in the way that it needs to be for us. It is who we are, and perfectly showcases me and my husband. I couldn't ask for a better love nor a better marriage.
So, for those who are in doubt. Please know that there is love out there. You just have to open your eyes, ears, and heart and honestly see what is in front of you. Don't give up on love. Don't give up on finding that 'fairy tale romance' because deep down, don't we all make our own version of a fairy tale?!
29 December 2010
23 December 2010
Call it hormones from this pregnancy or just call it the bitch inside of me, but anymore things that use to never bother me.. bother me now.
For example.... America has weakened it's standards. We have became far too humane. Other countries laugh at us, calling us weak. Want to know why?! We have become a county that is so worried about being politically correct that we would rather not offend someone (or a group of someones) than say what we need to say. The gay community... they enlisted into the Military of free will and knew that DADT was in order. They knew that they were not allowed to come out. It was one of the rules. So now, since they are all begging and pleading that they get the right to get married they feel that they shouldn't have to keep it a secret that they are gay. They feel that if there are any straight service members that feel uncomfortable they should leave. Oh, now wait a second. So, if we don't like what you do or have to say we either get over it or leave? Yet, if you don't like something we do or say, we have to change it or we are being discriminative?! I don't get that!!! Not in the least. But, I am called closed minded for not "backing up" the gay community. Well, guess what, my God and my bible and my just beliefs say that something isn't right about two men being together. Same for two women. I mean to be blunt, one (the female) has a 'hole' and the other (males) have a 'hole poker'. I just don't think it's right. But I am an American and it's my right to think whatever the hell I would like !!! Is it not?
Moving on...
Racism. Okay people now gather round. Listen good. EYES AND EARS!! It is only there because people choose to give it the power. They chose to slam other races for being racist, when in fact you calling me a 'cracker' is racist. Grow up and move on. Stop calling me a racist pig when you are the only one who refers to themselves in the derogatory word used against you. You don't hear Mexicans saying, what's up my spick/wetback/beaner, and you sure don't hear Asian saying "Hey you chink/zipperhead. BUT you hear blacks all the time call other blacks Nigger. Oh God, I said it lol the infamous N bomb. Haha. Doesn't mean that I choose to say this word, but I am typing it out because I have that right as an American to type/speak however I choose. So meh :/
Moving on again....
Okay, this is a little different, maybe. Our troops and The War on Terror. I do not understand how you can say that you support our troops but do not support the GWOT. If you support them, you support all that they do. You cannot support someone (fully) and yet turn around and not support what they do. It's kind of silly if you ask me. I hate hearing people give their opinions on this war based on what the media has told them. I really do. If you want to open your mouth, go do some research. Just like those who say that the war is all over oil... guess what.. we have to send oil drums over there for our vehicles. Now, why would we go to war with them over oil when we are using our own oil and the prices of oil back home were going through the roof. Hmm, sounds a little fishy to me. I don't know though, I could be wrong. It could just be the republican in me that hates all the mess the democrats are getting us into. Seriously. People who claim that the DEM. were doing a better job apparently didn't see what I saw when elections came around. If they were doing so good, why did they Rep. take over? Yeah. Sit on that one Nancy lol.
Moving on-yet again...
Last but not least. I know this probably upset a few, but anymore I just don't care. Maybe I should go back to writing about my feelings.. but honestly who all is out there in the internet world reading what I have to say. No one comments.. so what's to think that they read?! If they do, I'm sorry if I offended but it's what has been on my mind and I had to get it off my chest.
Good night my fellow bloggers :)
For example.... America has weakened it's standards. We have became far too humane. Other countries laugh at us, calling us weak. Want to know why?! We have become a county that is so worried about being politically correct that we would rather not offend someone (or a group of someones) than say what we need to say. The gay community... they enlisted into the Military of free will and knew that DADT was in order. They knew that they were not allowed to come out. It was one of the rules. So now, since they are all begging and pleading that they get the right to get married they feel that they shouldn't have to keep it a secret that they are gay. They feel that if there are any straight service members that feel uncomfortable they should leave. Oh, now wait a second. So, if we don't like what you do or have to say we either get over it or leave? Yet, if you don't like something we do or say, we have to change it or we are being discriminative?! I don't get that!!! Not in the least. But, I am called closed minded for not "backing up" the gay community. Well, guess what, my God and my bible and my just beliefs say that something isn't right about two men being together. Same for two women. I mean to be blunt, one (the female) has a 'hole' and the other (males) have a 'hole poker'. I just don't think it's right. But I am an American and it's my right to think whatever the hell I would like !!! Is it not?
Moving on...
Racism. Okay people now gather round. Listen good. EYES AND EARS!! It is only there because people choose to give it the power. They chose to slam other races for being racist, when in fact you calling me a 'cracker' is racist. Grow up and move on. Stop calling me a racist pig when you are the only one who refers to themselves in the derogatory word used against you. You don't hear Mexicans saying, what's up my spick/wetback/beaner, and you sure don't hear Asian saying "Hey you chink/zipperhead. BUT you hear blacks all the time call other blacks Nigger. Oh God, I said it lol the infamous N bomb. Haha. Doesn't mean that I choose to say this word, but I am typing it out because I have that right as an American to type/speak however I choose. So meh :/
Moving on again....
Okay, this is a little different, maybe. Our troops and The War on Terror. I do not understand how you can say that you support our troops but do not support the GWOT. If you support them, you support all that they do. You cannot support someone (fully) and yet turn around and not support what they do. It's kind of silly if you ask me. I hate hearing people give their opinions on this war based on what the media has told them. I really do. If you want to open your mouth, go do some research. Just like those who say that the war is all over oil... guess what.. we have to send oil drums over there for our vehicles. Now, why would we go to war with them over oil when we are using our own oil and the prices of oil back home were going through the roof. Hmm, sounds a little fishy to me. I don't know though, I could be wrong. It could just be the republican in me that hates all the mess the democrats are getting us into. Seriously. People who claim that the DEM. were doing a better job apparently didn't see what I saw when elections came around. If they were doing so good, why did they Rep. take over? Yeah. Sit on that one Nancy lol.
Moving on-yet again...
Last but not least. I know this probably upset a few, but anymore I just don't care. Maybe I should go back to writing about my feelings.. but honestly who all is out there in the internet world reading what I have to say. No one comments.. so what's to think that they read?! If they do, I'm sorry if I offended but it's what has been on my mind and I had to get it off my chest.
Good night my fellow bloggers :)
One heck of a Christmas Gift!
Me and the hubs found out that I am pregnant this past Friday. Now, I'm happy (I mean don't get me wrong) but I'm a little nervous. Going through a pregnancy during a deployment on my own WITH and additional 2 kids and a dog lol. Doesn't sound like the easiest of times lol. But, I have some really good friends that I know will be there for me so I don't really have any worries there. Guess we shall just see how things go.
Anyways, I just wanted to share the good news!!!
Thanks for reading!!!!
Anyways, I just wanted to share the good news!!!
Thanks for reading!!!!
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